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“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.


There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby.


Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.” – Bob Marley.

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being a part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship. When you’re down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry. You have a forever friend, and forever has no end.

– Marilyn Monroe

You know you’re missing someone when all you can think about is them, what they’re doing, where they’re at, and who they’re with. You think about all the good times you had with them and the memories with them play over and over in your head like a broken record.

Memories that showed they once cared about you and loved you, memories that make you smile, laugh, cry, or even anger that makes you want to kick a pebble on the side of the street.

Memories that remind you to take a breath and keep breathing no matter how hard it gets. Each memory is so perfect in its own way even if it was terrible at the time or seemed meaningless.

They all mean so much to you now, more than a priceless jewel or diamond. You want more memories like that and you tell yourself that they’re coming back for you and still love you but deep inside you know that may not happen. You dont want to accept the nasty reality that they may’ve already forgotten about you and moved on.

They may be so happy while you still sit and cry at night over losing something so precious. You dont even realize how big of a part they play in your life until they’re gone. Then it’s like a piece of you has gone missing and you need that piece to feel alive again.

You feel like you have an vacant spot in your heart, you feel like a empty carcass, something that’s been dug out and left for dead. You’re someone that’s alive but not really living or loving. You’re just going through the motions of daily life not caring anymore. The hunger for the person just grows stronger and you want them more. You need them back in your life.

You wish you could skip to the future for a spoiler to know whether theyre coming back. Your only wish is for them to be back in your life. Somehow when you’re missing them your love for them also grows even stronger than before. You love them even more now that they’re gone. You want and need only them. That my friend is how you know you’re missing someone.

– Via letterstocrushes